Breaking the Stigma: Men and Sex Toys
CA Staff on 2nd Jul 2025
Let’s Talk About It: Men, Pleasure, and the Toys That Bring It
Sex toys have long been associated with women—but men, it’s time to take your pleasure off the sidelines and into the spotlight. Despite the growing range of toys designed for male enjoyment, many men still feel hesitant, embarrassed, or even ashamed to explore what’s out there. But why?
Let’s break the silence and the stigma. Because sexual wellness isn’t just for one gender—it’s for everyone.
The Stigma: Why the Silence?
Many men grow up with the idea that pleasure should be straightforward, simple, or even “taboo” to talk about. There’s a stereotype that male masturbation is basic, one-note, or something that doesn’t need enhancement. Using a toy? That’s “weird” or “unnecessary.”
But that couldn’t be further from the truth.
Sex toys for men aren’t about replacing a partner or being “too into it”—they’re about exploring new sensations, understanding your body, and feeling confident in your own pleasure.
The Benefits of Sex Toys for Men
✅ Enhanced Pleasure: Toys like strokers, vibrating rings, and prostate massagers introduce new levels of stimulation that hands alone can’t provide.
✅ Better Sexual Health: Regular, mindful masturbation can relieve stress, improve sleep, and promote prostate health.
✅ Improved Intimacy: Using toys solo helps men learn what they enjoy—which leads to better communication and confidence with partners.
✅ Stronger Erections & Control: Some toys help increase stamina, build endurance, and boost blood flow.
Recommended Toys to Explore
Whether you're just starting out or looking to expand your pleasure arsenal, here are some favorites:
- Tenga Premium Cups – Designed for maximum sensation, these one-time-use strokers are ideal for men who want variety and realism.
- Kiiroo Feel Stars Collection – Life-like textures modeled after real stars, perfect for immersive experiences.
- We-Vibe Verge – A vibrating cock ring that adds shared pleasure for couples or solo play.
- Aneros Prostate Massagers – Great for exploring the P-spot and unlocking powerful, full-body orgasms.
Tips for First-Timers
Start simple: Try a beginner-friendly stroker or ring before jumping into tech-heavy toys.
Use lube: Always. Lubrication enhances comfort and sensation—water-based or silicone, depending on your toy.
Clean your toy: Use a proper toy cleaner or mild soap and water to keep things hygienic.
Be open-minded: It's all about learning what feels good and making time for yourself.
Changing the Narrative
It’s 2025. We should be celebrating self-exploration, not shaming it. Embracing sex toys is a form of self-care—one that promotes confidence, pleasure, and a better understanding of your body. And honestly? That’s something to be proud of.
So, guys—ditch the stigma. Pick up the toy. Discover what pleasure really means to you.
Ready to explore? Browse our full range of toys for men at Condoms Australia. Because your pleasure matters too.